Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Looking Back: What if there was no Easter?

The other day, I was reminded of a post from 3 years ago entitled: What if there was no Easter? As I looked over it again, I thought I would repost (slightly edited) it today. What do you think life would be like if there was no Easter? Do you think about what it was like before Jesus' sacrificial death and resurrection?

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For the junior high class, we wanted to go about the Easter lesson from a different POV. In preparation, I did some extra study on the Law and what life would be like under it. I, for one, am very glad we can celebrate Easter.

Throughout the class (about every 10 minutes) have the students do something routine. They will do the same thing every time. The goal is to let them gain a better understanding of what the annual sacrifices were like. They will do the same thing over and over and over and will not be able to not do it next time. Do not make it too difficult or time consuming, or you won't have time to do the rest of the study.

We are going to be asking and answering these questions:
What if Jesus had never died on the cross?
What if Jesus had never rose from the grave?
What if we were still under the Law?
What if we choose to live under the Law instead of under Grace?

The hope is that by looking at Easter from this POV, the students will better understand the importance and magnitude of what Jesus did for us.

We'll be looking at Gal. 2&3, Heb. 9, and some various OT passages on the Law

Trivia Wednesday #167: Usage of each letter

answer #166 - Q (What letter does not appear in the name of any of the 50 states?)

question #167 - What are the most & least used letters in the English alphabet?



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This weekly trivia is provided for use within your youth ministry. You can use this random trivia in many ways: use it to start a conversation with a student, add it to your introduction for your lesson or message, include it in your next newsletter or email, or just randomly insert it into your daily conversations. No matter how you decide to use it, I hope this trivia knowledge can be beneficial within your youth ministry.

If you have any suggestions on topics you would like to see used for the trivia questions, just leave a comment and let me know.

Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Trivia Wednesday #166: 50 State Names

answer #165 - "Uncopyrightable" (What 15 letter word can you spell without repeating a letter?)

question #166 - What letter does not appear in the name of any of the 50 states?



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This weekly trivia is provided for use within your youth ministry. You can use this random trivia in many ways: use it to start a conversation with a student, add it to your introduction for your lesson or message, include it in your next newsletter or email, or just randomly insert it into your daily conversations. No matter how you decide to use it, I hope this trivia knowledge can be beneficial within your youth ministry.

If you have any suggestions on topics you would like to see used for the trivia questions, just leave a comment and let me know.

Saturday, March 20, 2010

Every Youth Worker Needs: a book genre reading list (or part 2)

(Youth ministry is not an easy ministry. And in this series, Every Youth Worker Needs:..., I want to highlight a variety of things that might make your ministry a little easier. This ongoing series will include ministry tips, book suggestions, technology helps, and many other nuggets of advice.)


Yesterday I said that every youth worker needed to read a variety of literature. Today, I am offering my list of suggested genres that every youth worker should consider reading. Included with each genre is a list of good books that I have read, in case you need something more specific, to help you get started.

1. Leadership
- Visioneering by Andy Stanley
- Fish by Lundin, Paul, Christensen
- The Generosity Factor by Ken Blanchard and Truett Cathy
- Choosing to Cheat by Andy Stanley
- Mazimizing Your Effectiveness by Aubrey Malphurs
- The Tipping Point by Malcolm Gladwell
- The Dip by Seth Godin

2. General Ministry
- Church Staff Handbook by Harold Westing
- One Size Doesn't Fit All by Gary McIntosh
- Multiple Staff and the Larger Church by Lyle Schaller
- In the Name of Jesus by Henri Nouwen

3. Youth Ministry
- Sustainable Youth Ministry by Mark DeVries (my review)
- Purpose Driven Youth Ministry by Doug Fields
- Junior High Ministry by Wayne Rice
- Your First Two Years in Youth Ministry by Doug Fields
- Hurt by Chap Clark

4. Fiction/Classics
- The Death of Ivan Ilych by Leo Tolstoy (looks at death & dying)
- Blink by Ted Dekker
- Bleachers by John Grisham
- Crime and Punishment by Fyodor Dostoyevsky
- A Tale of Three Kings by Gene Edwards
- The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-Time by Mark Hadden

5. Theology/Biblical Study
- Introduction to Biblical Hermeneutics by Walter Kaiser and Moises Silva
- 60-Second Guide to Denominations by Shelly Steig
- Simply Christian by N.T. Wright (my review)
- Called to Worship by Vernon Whaley (my review)
- Hidden Worldviews by Steve Wilkens and Mark Sanford

6. Christian Living
- Unquenchable Worshipper by Matt Redman
- Ordering Your Private World by Gordon MacDonald
- Messy Spirituality by Mike Yaconell
- Soul Survivor by Mike Pilavachi
- Restoring Margin to Overloaded Lives by Richard Swenson & Karen Lee-Thorp

7. Books that make you think
- Addiction and Grace by Gerald May
- flashBANG by Mark Steele
- Me, Myself, and Bob by Phil Vischer (my review)
- free refill by Mark Atteberry
- Culture Making by Andy Crouch (my review)
- Signature Sins by Michael Mangis

8. Humor
- since we all laugh at different things, I'm going to let you find your own books that cause you to chuckle. But you do need to make sure you include this into your reading rotation.

If you need any other ideas, you can find some while browsing through the book reviews from this blog.


(Every Youth Worker Needs: A Blog Series About Things You Need in Youth Ministry)

Friday, March 19, 2010

Every Youth Worker Needs: to read a variety of books

(Youth ministry is not an easy ministry. And in this series, Every Youth Worker Needs:..., I want to highlight a variety of things that might make your ministry a little easier. This ongoing series will include ministry tips, book suggestions, technology helps, and many other nuggets of advice.)

It was not until I was in college that I began to enjoy reading books. While I always completed the required reading, I never read anything else in high school. But sometime early in my college career my love of books was birthed. I believe my acquired fascination with books stemmed from my ability to read books on topics I liked, or maybe I just matured enough to want to learn. Either way, I began to read more books and enjoy the process of reading to learn.

In college, there is so much required reading, you do not have much opportunity to read what you want. So when I started as a full-time youth minister, I thought I would read all of the books I never read, but now wanted to read. I wanted to read books on leadership, ministry, youth ministry, marriage, adolescent development, classic literature, and anything else that peeked my interest. Unfortunately, I found one thing to be true: I did not have any more time to read everything I wanted to then I did in college.

After realizing I could not possibly read everything, I came up with an idea of how I could read the most variety. I would rotate through a list of different genres. Instead of reading multiple youth ministry books in a row, I would rotate from youth ministry to leadership to marriage to ministry, and so on. I never limited myself to a fixed rotation, but allowed flexibility to pick and choose. My main goal was to maintain a variety in the information I was reading. This goal generated from my belief that many people in business, leadership, or ministry were stuck in a book rut. I was seeing a trend where only a few books were getting read and talked about. If a book was popular, it was read, almost regardless of whether the person wanted to read it next or not. All books have the biggest readership within the first few months of release, but the "best sellers" stay on top because of this "bandwagon reading." As you watch what books are being read and talked about, you will notice that it happens with anyone from business executives to stay-at-home mothers.

I am not saying it is wrong to read a book because someone told you it was good. That would be hypocritical of me, since I read and review books for this blog and for Youth Specialties. What I am saying is that I believe youth workers can pigeon-hole themselves into a certain mentality and focus because you only read a narrow spectrum of books. The way you minister is based on a collection of influences, including any mentors, ministry classes you took, conferences and seminars you have attended and the books you have read. If you only read and listen to one method of ministry, you will never question if there is another way to reach students and share God's love. And while you cannot change anything you have learned in the past, you have the ability to choose the books that will influence you in the present.

A few years ago I realized it was not the amount of books that help a youth worker stay sharp, there needs to be variety, as well. As I looked at my "books read" list, I discovered something - my list revolved around one or two main genres (youth ministry and leadership). I needed more variety and I bet you do too. Think about it in terms of your eating habits and nutritional intake. A person cannot eat only Jiffy peanut butter and stay nutritionally healthy. You will not be properly nourished if you refuse to drink milk. But what about people who have allergies? If that is what you are thinking, you have just taken this illustration too far. (No one is allergic to any genre of literature.) But the point can be made that even when you do not eat certain foods high in vitamins, you will supplement by taking daily vitamins. We understand the importance of receiving the vitamins (what is inside the food) even if we do not like the food itself. Yet, youth workers do not always realize the importance of reading a variety of literature in order to obtain knowledge on varying topics.

To the best of my knowledge, there are no knowledge vitamins we can take to supplement our lack of varied reading. No, the only way to gain this assortment of information is to read a variety of books. I have come up with a list of genres I think every youth worker needs to add to their reading rotation, and will post this list tomorrow. Before we get to the genres, allow me to say this: I know you may not be able to read three books from each genre each year. I am not trying to suggest that. What I am suggesting is that you use this list as a starting point and refuse to read two same-genre books in a row.







(Every Youth Worker Needs: A Blog Series About Things You Need in Youth Ministry)

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Trivia Wednesday #165: 15 letter word

answer #164 - "set" with 75 definitions (What word has the longest entry in the Webster's dictionary?)

question #165 - What 15 letter word can you spell without repeating a letter?



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This weekly trivia is provided for use within your youth ministry. You can use this random trivia in many ways: use it to start a conversation with a student, add it to your introduction for your lesson or message, include it in your next newsletter or email, or just randomly insert it into your daily conversations. No matter how you decide to use it, I hope this trivia knowledge can be beneficial within your youth ministry.

If you have any suggestions on topics you would like to see used for the trivia questions, just leave a comment and let me know.

Monday, March 15, 2010

"Minute to Win It" - youth ministry game resource

Over the last few weeks, I have watched previews for NBC's new shows. One show in particular caught my attention (and the attention of the rest of the youth ministry world) "Minute to Win It." Basically, contestants have one minute to complete a game using simple household items. If they complete ten games, then they win 1 million dollars. As I watched the commercials, I kept seeing games I have played with my youth groups. One is the "shrinking grocery bag" game (where the bag keeps getting shorter and shorter and you have to pick it up with your teeth.) I like the single player version better than the way I played. At a 30 Hour Famine we played where you went around a circle and everyone tried to pick it up. My version is not nearly as sanitary as the games version.

If you have not heard of "Minute to Win It" you need to check it out. It's on Sunday nights at 7 central. You also need to check out the website for the game. Up until a few days ago, I knew about the game, but I had not realized that the show's website would be a great help to youth workers until I read Youth Ministry Geek's post. You need to go check out the game vault and use a game or two.

Before I hit "publish" I feel I need to offer this word of warning to youth workers everywhere. Please do not saturate the youth ministry world with an abundance of "Minute to Win It" games or retreats or evangelism events. These games will be a great addition to your events, but DO NOT overdue it. I saw it happen with youth ministry versions of "Who Wants to Be a Millionaire" (and many other pop culture things) and students get tired of it.


Remember that moderation is a good thing.

One last comment (question). I know there will be a t-shirt soon based on "Minute to Win It," but I just can't figure out what it will say. Do you have any thoughts?

Friday, March 12, 2010

SYMC 2010: post conference thoughts

It's been a few weeks since I attended the Simply Youth Ministry Conference in Chicago. I'm still thinking about what I learned and experienced, but I wanted to share some of my post conference thoughts...

1. Sustainable Youth Ministry - Deeper Learning Track
I read the book last year. Sustainable Youth Ministry is simply one of the best youth ministry books I have read in a long time (and I'm not just saying that). So, going into the 4 sessions I had an idea of what we would discuss. But I knew I wanted (needed?) to go over the material again, in a new way. I am glad I did.

Though I did not get to be there all 8 hours (see Ministry in the Valley) I was able to take a lot of great information from what I did hear. What I appreciated most about this track was that it allowed each participant chances to apply the material to his/her own setting. It was not a "get overloaded at a conference and go home and do nothing" seminar - it was a "work on steps to application during the conference, so you can go home and implement changes" seminar.

I recommend attending this seminar any chance you get. And hopefully in the next week or so, I'll post some of my thoughts and notes.

2. Meeting online friends, in person
Being connected to people online has been a blessing. It is helpful to have people who are not connected to my situation to talk to and share with. But going to a convention, like SYMC, changes those relationships. The friends I know from their profile pictures took on a new dimension when meeting in person. Now when I talk to these friends online, I have a lot better picture of who they are and what is going on in their life.

3. Ministry in the Valley
I got to be part of the Ministry in the Valley this year. It was a group of youth workers willing to listen to, pray with and talk with hurting youth workers. Based on what I experienced and what I heard from others who were involved, it was a much needed part of the convention for some youth workers.

If you are hurting, you are not alone.
If you are hurting, do not be afraid to talk with someone.

4. Talking Youth Ministry
I always enjoy sitting around (even better on Sack Chairs) talking ministry and students. Hearing another youth worker share about their ministry, passion and what God is teaching them is a great encouragement to me. I always walk away with new ideas and perspectives.

5. Surprising Legacy
This was the theme for the weekend. And for me, it was exactly what I needed to hear. I needed a reminder that God has called me to leave a legacy. My ministry is not solely dependent on my position. It is more about how I am living in order to honor God, regardless of what title is in front or after my name.

6. Being reminded of the importance of what we do
This goes along with #5. I was reminded a few times that the things my wife and I are doing are important. It is not about being seen or even getting paid. The main point is to love God and love others.

7. Staying off-site
I got to stay with an old college friend for the weekend, which was great. The only downside was that I missed some of the evening stuff because I had to drive to his house. On the other side, since I didn't have a room to go to when I had downtime, I was able to spend that time hanging out and talking with people. Not staying at a local hotel made the whole conference feel different, not a bad different. Plus, I do not think I would have been able to go if this arrangement was not possible - so for that I am very thankful.

8. Overall feel
I really enjoyed the small atmosphere of SYMC. There were plenty of youth workers (2500) but it didn't feel overwhelming. Plus, the speakers and presenters were very welcoming. I had multiple conversations with presenters, who were not "too busy" to stop and talk to youth workers. Plus, even Thom & Joani Shultz (owners of Group Publishing) were willing to stand around and talk with those of us who spend our time ministering to students. This behavior says a lot about the company - and Group has "gone up" in my book. (I already liked the company, but now I've seen firsthand that its about more than just the bottom line. And that means a ton to those of us on the front lines.)

I will definitely be going back in the future. And if you should, too!

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Trivia Wednesday #164: Most Definitions in Webster's

answer #163 - Blanchette (What is Little Red Riding Hood's first name?)

question #164 - What word has the longest entry in the Webster's dictionary?



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This weekly trivia is provided for use within your youth ministry. You can use this random trivia in many ways: use it to start a conversation with a student, add it to your introduction for your lesson or message, include it in your next newsletter or email, or just randomly insert it into your daily conversations. No matter how you decide to use it, I hope this trivia knowledge can be beneficial within your youth ministry.

If you have any suggestions on topics you would like to see used for the trivia questions, just leave a comment and let me know.

Saturday, March 06, 2010

to quote someone else: Student Discipleship (Mike Yaconelli)

"Most of all, love them. Believe in them. Trust them. Be an example for them. Stick with them over the long haul. And some day, when they're older, when they've weathered a few storms, when they've been beaten up by life a bit, they may actually start looking like a disciple - not because you discipled them, but because you refused to give up on them."

taken from Getting Fired for the Glory of God by Mike Yaconelli


Youth workers need to be reminded that youth ministry (and discipleship) is not a sprint. Remember that Jesus spent 3 years with His disciples, and they still did not get until after He left.

Do not give up!
Do not feel defeated!
Keep going!
Stick with your students!

Wednesday, March 03, 2010

March Trivia: Literature & Language

This month I'm focusing the trivia questions on literature and language. The five questions will be on:

March 3 - Little Red Riding Hood
March 10 - Word with the longest entry in Webster's Dictionary
March 17 - 15 Letter word that doesn't repeat letters
March 24 - 50 State Names
March 31 - Letter usage

Each week, you'll get a chance to see how well you know these specific literature or language questions.


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This weekly trivia is provided for use within your youth ministry. You can use this random trivia in many ways: use it to start a conversation with a student, add it to your introduction for your lesson or message, include it in your next newsletter or email, or just randomly insert it into your daily conversations. No matter how you decide to use it, I hope this trivia knowledge can be beneficial within your youth ministry.

If you have any suggestions on topics you would like to see used for the trivia questions, just leave a comment and let me know.

Trivia Wednesday #163: Little Red Riding Hood

answer #162 - Women purchase 85% of all valentines annually. (Women purchase 85% of all valentines annually.)

question #163 - What is Little Red Riding Hood's first name?


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This weekly trivia is provided for use within your youth ministry. You can use this random trivia in many ways: use it to start a conversation with a student, add it to your introduction for your lesson or message, include it in your next newsletter or email, or just randomly insert it into your daily conversations. No matter how you decide to use it, I hope this trivia knowledge can be beneficial within your youth ministry.

If you have any suggestions on topics you would like to see used for the trivia questions, just leave a comment and let me know.