Recently, I got to thinking about the process of being hired for a ministry position.
Some denominations will simply place a minister into a congregation with very little input from the congregation. Other denominations will provide names of possible ministers for a congregation to look over and then choose from. And a third possibility is that the congregation is simply "on its own" in finding a new minister.
I have always been a part of congregations who vote on incoming ministers. Most of the time, a minister has to receive at least 75% "yes" votes to be called. This percentage will vary on the particular position and by congregation. I have my own thoughts on the subject, which I might share late, but for now I want to hear what you think about the percentage of approval.
If you were applying for a new youth ministry position and the congregation had to vote, what is the lowest vote percentage you would be willing to accept for a new ministry? This is all assuming you feel God leading you to this congregation and there being no red flags or other negatives to keep you from working on staff. This is not necessarily the percentage set by the congregation. (for instance, if the congregation says you need a 76% or better and you get a 80% yes vote, would you still accept?)
What is the lowest approval percentage you would accept for a new ministry?
1. 75%
2. 80%
3. 85%
4. 90%
5. 95%
6. 97%
7. 100%
8. other
vote on the poll and leave a comment on this post sharing your reasoning. Or if you have a story to tell about approval votes, we'd love to hear that, too.
Sunday, November 29, 2009
New Poll: Lowest approval vote you would accept for a new ministry
Posted by
lilkup
2
comments
Labels: ministry, ministry search, youth ministry, Youth Ministry Thoughts
December Trivia
December is around the corner (okay, its in two days). This month, our trivia focuses on Christmas, including traditions and songs surrounding the holiday. We will not be covering trivia related to the biblical events of Jesus' birth this time, maybe next year.
This month's questions will be about:
- The first Christmas celebration.
- Why December 25th the date of Christmas.
- When Christmas became a federal holiday in the US.
- Where we get the Christmas tree tradition.
- The 12 days of Christmas.
-----------
This weekly trivia is provided for use within your youth ministry. You can use this random trivia in many ways: use it to start a conversation with a student, add it to your introduction for your lesson or message, include it in your next newsletter or email, or just randomly insert it into your daily conversations. No matter how you decide to use it, I hope this trivia knowledge can be beneficial within your youth ministry.
If you have any suggestions on topics you would like to see used for the trivia questions, just leave a comment and let me know.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: trivia, Trivia Wednesday
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Trivia Wednesday #149: Turkey as the national bird
answer #148 - Truman (Who was the first President to pardon a turkey from Thanksgiving dinner?)
question #149 - Which Founding Father wanted the turkey to be the national bird?
*Apparently the Truman story has not been confirmed and its more probable that George HW Bush was the first one to pardon a turkey.
------------
This weekly trivia is provided for use within your youth ministry. You can use this random trivia in many ways: use it to start a conversation with a student, add it to your introduction for your lesson or message, include it in your next newsletter or email, or just randomly insert it into your daily conversations. No matter how you decide to use it, I hope this trivia knowledge can be beneficial within your youth ministry.
If you have any suggestions on topics you would like to see used for the trivia questions, just leave a comment and let me know.
Posted by
lilkup
1 comments
Labels: trivia, Trivia Wednesday
Monday, November 23, 2009
Trivia Wednesday #148: Presidential turkey pardon
answer #147 - Neil Armstrong (Who was the first astronaut to eat a turkey dinner on the moon?)
question #148 - Who was the first President to pardon a turkey from Thanksgiving dinner?
------------
This weekly trivia is provided for use within your youth ministry. You can use this random trivia in many ways: use it to start a conversation with a student, add it to your introduction for your lesson or message, include it in your next newsletter or email, or just randomly insert it into your daily conversations. No matter how you decide to use it, I hope this trivia knowledge can be beneficial within your youth ministry.
If you have any suggestions on topics you would like to see used for the trivia questions, just leave a comment and let me know.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: trivia, Trivia Wednesday
Thursday, November 19, 2009
Cheap Books from Simply Youth Ministry
Simply Youth Ministry is having a warehouse moving sale - and that means you can get some great books for really cheap.
Go here for the whole list, and to order your books.
It looks like they are going quickly, so hurry over and see what is left!
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: books, youth ministry
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
Trivia Wednesday #147: Turkey Dinner on the Moon
answer #146 - Abraham Lincoln (Who was the first President to make Thanksgiving a national holiday?)
question #147 - Who was the first astronaut to eat a turkey dinner on the moon?
-------
This weekly trivia is provided for use within your youth ministry. You can use this random trivia in many ways: use it to start a conversation with a student, add it to your introduction for your lesson or message, include it in your next newsletter or email, or just randomly insert it into your daily conversations. No matter how you decide to use it, I hope this trivia knowledge can be beneficial within your youth ministry.
If you have any suggestions on topics you would like to see used for the trivia questions, just leave a comment and let me know.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: trivia, Trivia Wednesday
Wednesday, November 04, 2009
Trivia Wednesday #146: Thanksgiving
answer #145 - $24.17, according to the 2008 spending analysis by the National Retail Federation. (How much money does the average consumer spend on a Halloween costume?)
question #146 - Who was the first President to make Thanksgiving a national holiday?
------------
This weekly trivia is provided for use within your youth ministry. You can use this random trivia in many ways: use it to start a conversation with a student, add it to your introduction for your lesson or message, include it in your next newsletter or email, or just randomly insert it into your daily conversations. No matter how you decide to use it, I hope this trivia knowledge can be beneficial within your youth ministry.
If you have any suggestions on topics you would like to see used for the trivia questions, just leave a comment and let me know.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: trivia, Trivia Wednesday
Saturday, October 31, 2009
NYWC 09: Friday & Saturday
The convention is definitely underway.
A lot of great content being shared from speakers, teachers and fellow youth workers. This communication of ideas is what makes youth workers so great - we are not afraid to share what we know and learn from others who have been where we want to go.
This attitude is what makes Open Space a great addition to the National Youth Workers Convention.
Open Space was a great experience. For me, I stayed with a group who were talking about working in a small church. We talked about finances, reaching the community, ministering to students, staying relevant, connecting students to the older generation and a little more. It was a great collaboration of those struggling and those who have found success. We shared ideas, thought outloud and listened. It was a great use of my time.
For anyone going Atlanta in a few weeks - GO TO THE OPEN SPACE SATURDAY.
Check out the YS Blog for more thoughts on the Big Rooms.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: NYWC, youth ministry
Friday, October 30, 2009
Photo Friday: Frozen Bananas & A Mutated Strawberry
Bananas just do not look right after you freeze them.
As a Halloween bonus: here is a picture of a mutated strawberry. Okay, really its just a very odd shaped strawberry that looks like it should sprout a mouth and start talking.
--------------------
These weekly pictures are provided as an available resource for use within your youth ministry. These pictures can be used for background slides, event promotion, or anywhere else you need a good photograph. What I ask is that you do not use them for anything in which you make a profit and attribute me as the photographer. I would also love to hear how you are using them (pictures of your final product would be great, too) within your youth ministry.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: Photo Friday, pics
Thursday, October 29, 2009
NYWC 09: Thursday
First full day of the convention for me (as a volunteer).
Today was a good day. Store is set up and ready to go. I got to hang out with some old friends and a few new ones. Since we (the store volunteers) are so good, we got done early today - so we got to check out a early bird seminar. I sat in on the Real World Parents seminar, taught by Mark Matlock. I got to sit next to and talk with Patti Gibbons. Nice to actually meet her in person.
Then I got to hang out with some old college buddies (Bill being one of those guys) - a great "get away" for me. We went to LaRosa's (I highly recommend it for anyone visiting Cincy) and got some ice cream at Graeter's. I think it is good to get together and talk and laugh. Especially for me right now.
A rather good start to the convention and it has not officially started yet :)
On another note:
I am a big book reader, so I intentionally left all of my books (except my Bible) at home. I want to use my free time to either read my Bible, pray, talk with other youth workers or interact with someone.
I believe this weekend is going to be one of the best ones in a long time and that has nothing to do with what is going on with YS, but on the fact that God is bigger than anything that is going on with YS, you, the economy or your congregation. Come expecting God to be God and you won't be let down.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: ministry, NYWC, personal, youth ministry, Youth Ministry Thoughts
Wednesday, October 28, 2009
Trivia Wednesday #145: Money Spent on Halloween Costume
answer #144 - Tootsie Rolls. (What was the first wrapped candy in America?)
question #145 - How much money does the average consumer spend on a Halloween costume?
--------------
This weekly trivia is provided for use within your youth ministry. You can use this random trivia in many ways: use it to start a conversation with a student, add it to your introduction for your lesson or message, include it in your next newsletter or email, or just randomly insert it into your daily conversations. No matter how you decide to use it, I hope this trivia knowledge can be beneficial within your youth ministry.
If you have any suggestions on topics you would like to see used for the trivia questions, just leave a comment and let me know.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: trivia, Trivia Wednesday
Monday, October 26, 2009
Relational Communication
(This article was originally posted on YW Journal, you can read & comment on it here on this blog or over at YW Journal)
When was the last time you had a significant conversation with a student? I'm not talking about the "I want to give my life to Christ for the first time" kind of conversation. I'm talking about the conversation where you hear about a recent fight with a parent. Or the conversation that details a student's struggle to control anger and the desire to get a handle on it. Maybe it is centered around the difficulty of being a Christian example at school.
Having any type of conversation that goes beyond a surface-level can be difficult for many adults. Let's just be honest, teenagers can be very moody and hard to understand, which makes talking with them intimidating to many adults. To make the situation even worse, most adults are so intimidated that the paid youth worker has to carry the responsibility of talking with 100% of the teenagers who come through the church doors, plus a few extra from the community. But there is a better way.
It's not just for paid staff
Paid youth workers are not the only people qualified to have significant conversations with teenagers, in fact any adult can do it. But these significant conversations do not happen by accident, it will take effort and a better understanding of teenagers. First of all, students do not withhold talking to someone just because the person is not a youth worker. In fact, there are many students who are less willing to talk about certain issues with a youth worker than anyone else.
Being on both sides of the youth worker role, paid full-time and volunteer, has given me a new insight into one of the keys to effectively communicating with teenagers. The key is not in asking just the right questions. Nor is the key found in the location of the conversation (ie. better conversation is not had while drinking coffee at the local coffee shop). The key to effective communication with teenagers is having a relationship with them.
A listening ear
This truth became vividly clear to me one day while I was subbing in the local high school. At the time I was not in a full-time youth minister position, but I had been in the area for a few years and knew most of the students in the school. Most of the students knew who I was and they knew one of the reasons I was subbing was because I genuinely care for teenagers. During this particular day, I had three significant conversations with students - the kind of "ministry conversations" every youth worker longs to have with students.
I did not plan to have these conversations, in fact I almost missed one because I was reluctant to stop what I was doing to talk to the student. (I'm so glad I stopped and listened) Since I did not plan these conversations, what made them happen? The only connection between all three conversations was my ongoing relationship with the student. I had known them for years and they knew I truly cared for them and desired the best for their life. My relationship with the student was the key to unlocking significant conversation and that day I was reminded of how much students will share when they know you care.
Build relationships
So, how does an adult who cares about teenagers take advantage of this relational aspect to significant conversations? For starters, if you sit down with a student and its the first time you start thinking about having a significant conversation with them, then its already too late. This relational communication will take foresight and planning on your part. The first step happens when you begin to intentionally focus on building a relationship with the student. Now, this is not a form of manipulation used to get the student to talk to you - if you are not genuinely concerned with the student's life, then they will know and they will not talk to you anyway. You cannot be fake with a student!
Actually if you are involved with youth ministry in any fashion, the desire to build a relationship with a teenager will come naturally. The first step is to take an interest in the student's life; learn about hobbies, family structure, interests, and what they are gifted in. You cannot have an ongoing relationship if you do not know about their life and you will also struggle to carry a conversation if all you can ask is, "How was school this week?" Asking questions about specific aspects of a student's life is important, but do not be afraid to stop and listen to what is on their heart.
The relational key
Being given the opportunity to have significant conversations with students does not involve a mysterious formula or collection of the right "buzz words." The biggest, and strongest, key is simply caring enough about a student to have a relationship with them. Not a relationship based on what the student can do for you or the ministry you are involved with, but a relationship based on one adult showing God's love to one student. If you have that strong relationship and listen to a student, then every once in a while you will find yourself on the listening end of a significant conversation. A conversation that just might change the future of one special teenager.
It does not matter if you are a full-time youth worker, part-time youth worker, a volunteer, a bus driver, or an "extra" adult - if you have a relationship with a student, then they will willingly talk and share with you. Most students do not talk to an adult based on the title that goes along with their name. They talk to an adult based on the relationship formed over the years. Knowing this truth and not utilizing it will lead to dozens (hundreds?) of missed opportunities to speak into a teenager's life.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: high school, middle school, ministry, published, students, youth coaches, youth ministry, Youth Ministry Thoughts, youth ministry tips
Sunday, October 25, 2009
NYWC '09: The Variations
This week's NYWC in Cincinnati will be the 9th convention I've attended. And as I think back to the past 8, I realize just how much each convention is unique.
I went to my first NYWC while I was a student at Cincinnati Christian University. (This year will mark my third time going to Cincinnati.) At this point, I had no idea what the next 10 years would hold, but I was encouraged and challenged to minister to students. I gained insight from the classes and enjoyed hanging out with a friend from school. Oh, and I first experienced hearing Mike Yaconelli speak. His ministry was such a blessing to me those first few years.
Shortly after starting my first full-time ministry, I attended convention in FL. Somehow I had managed to become overwhelmed with youth ministry within the first few months. (something about me being naive to what would really happen...) I attended this convention with my wife and a few other couples from college. It was a breath of fresh air in my youth ministry lungs. I still remember a few of the talks (first time I ever heard Rob Bell), seminars and resources I picked up during this week. A great way to encourage my first year in ministry.
The next convention I went to as a volunteer. This is the year I truly learned that YS is not about "business" as much as it is about ministry and people. I experienced the convention in a whole new way: behind the scenes. This new perspective allowed me to experience the people behind YS. (And it is these people that make YS what it is!!) I also learned to juggle, thanks to Glenn. Sadly, the biggest memory from this convention actually happened a few days afterward. This was the last convention Mike Yaconelli was ever at, as he was killed in a car accident a few days later.
How would the convention ever be the same? Simple answer - it wouldn't.
The next year was tough. It was strange to be at a NYWC and not see/hear Yac in the halls and on the stage. But Yac's absence did not mean the convention was not encouraging and uplifting. YS is so much more than just one person, even if that person is the co-founder/president. The convention was not the same, but God showed Himself in a mighty way - at least to me.
Always Something New
I've been to convention in various stages of ministry. Like I said, I started going while I was still in college. I attended as a full-time minister. And I've attended while I was out of ministry. And each year I've learned a ton and benefited more than I thought I would. Each year I leave the convention blessed and grateful that I went.
Going into this year's convention, I was already planning for it to be different. When I signed up to volunteer a few months ago, I was really looking forward to some of the new changes - like the Open Space Saturday, and the modified "Big Room." Plus, I always look forward to hearing God and talking with others who are passionate about students. But I was not looking forward to a few other changes, mainly the absence of some of my YS friends. Over the past year (like in previous years) some of my friends are no longer working for YS. I miss not seeing my friends when I go to a convention like NYWC.
On top of this, last week, a new change was added. Marko is no longer president of YS and at this point, the future is unsure. This change will be one seen by more people (unlike some of the other friends I will miss seeing), as Marko was the face of YS and a constant stage presence during the conventions. Even though I, nor you, do not know details about the situation I am confident that God is in control and that the convention will still be a place of rest, encouragement, challenge and safety.
Changes are inevitable - as I have found out attending the NYWC's over the years. But change is not always bad.
I am a different person this year than I was last.
YS is a different company this year than it was last.
You are a different person this year than you were last.
But God is still the same this year as He was last - and that is what we put our trust in, isn't it?
See you in Cincy!
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: NYWC, personal, youth ministry
Friday, October 23, 2009
Photo Friday: Mini Cantaloupe
A close up of some mini cantaloupe. Aren't they cute?
-------------------
These weekly pictures are provided as an available resource for use within your youth ministry. These pictures can be used for background slides, event promotion, or anywhere else you need a good photograph. What I ask is that you do not use them for anything in which you make a profit and attribute me as the photographer. I would also love to hear how you are using them (pictures of your final product would be great, too) within your youth ministry.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: Photo Friday, pics
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
Trivia Wednesday #144: First Wrapped Candy
answer #143 - Halloween candy sales average about 2 billion dollars annually in the United States. (How much money is spent on Halloween candy each year?)
question #144 - What was the first wrapped candy in America?
------------
This weekly trivia is provided for use within your youth ministry. You can use this random trivia in many ways: use it to start a conversation with a student, add it to your introduction for your lesson or message, include it in your next newsletter or email, or just randomly insert it into your daily conversations. No matter how you decide to use it, I hope this trivia knowledge can be beneficial within your youth ministry.
If you have any suggestions on topics you would like to see used for the trivia questions, just leave a comment and let me know.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: trivia, Trivia Wednesday
Tuesday, October 20, 2009
Life, Death, & the Uncertainty of It All
(I wrote this after a car accident took 2 young lives and severely injured a third. When something tragic happens in a small community everyone is affected and this accident was no different. Life is short and it is a precious gift. I pray this reminder might stir someone to think more about their life and strive to live it to the fullest.)
Average life expectancy is somewhere in the 70's, with women usually living longer than men. This number has increased since the 1900's, thanks to advancements in medicine and a better knowledge of diseases. But there is one thing to always remember when you hear about "life expectancy" - no one knows how long they will live. There is no guarantee that you will reach the age of 70, or even 10. Life is a gift, not a guarantee.
The ultimate authority on life is God, since He created it and everything, and He never told us we were guaranteed a certain number of days. In fact, in James 4:14, we read the exact opposite. "You do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes." We are a mist and mists do not last long. So instead of assuming we will live to retirement in a nursing home, we need to live each day to its fullest. Do not assume you have tomorrow, because tomorrow has never been promised!
Life is a gift. Eternal life is a promise. "And this is what he (God) promised us - even eternal life." (1 John 2:25) When a young person dies, it is easy to start blaming or questioning God. How can a loving God allow this to happen? Why didn't God save them? What kind of God would allow such a young person to be taken from this world? Why...? These questions are understandable, but I believe they are also misguided.
I believe "bad stuff" happens because there is sin in the world, not because God is not all-loving. Nor is God surprised by a sudden and tragic death. Often, after a tragic death people wonder, "Where was God when _________ died?" God was in the same place He was when His Son died.* Although God wants the best for us and loves us more than we can imagine, He will not intervene into a situation just to save us from pain and suffering. Instead, He provides us with two things that are so much better. First, God offers us a peace that passes understanding- "And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." (Philippians 4:7) Second, He offers us eternal life with Him. "For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord." (Romans 6:23)
These two options are far better than anything we could ever come up with. With the promise of eternal life with God and a peace beyond understanding, you can make it through each day and experience joy, even when something awful and uncomprehensible happens. It does not mean you will understand or that you will not hurt. It only means that when we trust in God and lean on Him for guidance, He will give us comfort.
Knowing the days of our life are numbered, and God is the only One who knows that number, should cause us to determine to live each day as if it might be our last. Each day is a gift, not a promise. Every morning you wake up, thank God that you woke up with breath in your lungs. Every night when you go to bed, thank God for the day of life He gave you. When you practice this simple habit, you will start to move away from the tendency to take life for granted.
--------
* I first heard this while reading an article Mike Yaconelli wrote for Youthworker Journal entitled "I Don't Know" (Nov. 2001). In the article he attributes the thought to Leslie Weatherhead, a minister in London during the Second World War.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: discussion starter, God, ministry, Scripture, youth ministry
Monday, October 19, 2009
to quote someone else: Vernon Whaley (worship leader encouragement)
"For a moment here, allow me to address the worship leaders among you. Servants of God, stay faithful to your task. Sure, there are days when it seems you're the only one on staff with a clear vision for how worship should be. The loneliness of the rehearsal room is almost too much to bear. While those under your leadership are getting 'pats on the back,' your own labor is seemingly ignored. And trying to find songs that meet the needs of everyone in your congregation? A waste of time, you're convinced. The old-timers want songs from yesteryear's hymnals; the younger set want their choruses, products of contemporary musicians, projected on the wall. While one group claps enthusiastically, another 'claps' their hands over their ears. It's useless! your heart signs. But friend, it's not. Remember, your worship is unto the Lord. After all, our worship here is just a rehearsal for our worship in eternity. Meanwhile, just remain faithful, and God will reward your efforts. He-not the church membership-is the righteous Judge. Meanwhile, look at every opportunity to promote God's kingdom through worship as God's opportunity. Lost men and women, boy and girls, grandparents, friends, and neighbors will be impacted by the worship-and faithfulness- that you demonstrate."
May this be an encouragement for worship leaders. When you have a rough weekend, remember your efforts are not about pleasing people - but rather about pleasing God.
This paragraph can also serve as an encouragement for youth workers. Sometimes we feel the same sort of things and forget Who we ultimately are ministering to.
(pass this along to any and every worship leader you know, especially if you think they need some encouraging words)
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Saturday, October 17, 2009
Learned from Twitter: week ending Oct. 17, 2009
(multiple week edition)
Below are some tweets, from the last few weeks, that have caught my attention.
1. nickarnold (Nick Arnold) released a free ebook on connecting with students apart from the four walls at your church. You should check it out if you have not already. (I did add some insight/thoughts to the book, but don't let that stop you from looking at it)
free eBook full of ideas for youth leaders and volunteers to develop relationships with students, would love an RT :) http://bit.ly/J8qpk2. YMX (Youth Ministry Exchange) asked for some help for an exchange student. (Don't know if they still need it, but if you can help - get a hold of them or let me know and I'll contact them)
HELP! Exchange student arrived with exactly 5 shirts! Have a size M guys t-shirt (maybe from a past event) he could have? @ for info3. lovesmesomeyou (Andrew Marin) let us know that his book is available on Kindle. That's awesome. Oh, and you should check it out.
RT @likewise_books Love Is an Orientation: Elevating the Conversation with the Gay Community, is now available on Kindle! http://ow.ly/rZId4. outsideallday (Andy Brazelton) linked to a free online version of Group magazine. You need to take advantage of this and go learn (ie. click the link...).
Miss the last issue of Group Magazine? Thanks to @crd55 and @zafdaddy you can check it out for free online: http://budurl.com/groupmag5. pastorbuhro (Brad Buhro) wants to add to the number of meals that Pizza Hut will donate. I don't know how long this lasts, but it wouldn't hurt to try and help.
RT @pizzahut:We will donate 4 meals to World Hunger Relief 4 each person who RTs this: http://ow.ly/qWn8 #pizzahut (More: http://ow.ly/r3Cy)6. MarkMatlock (Mark Matlock) asks a good question. Do you have any thoughts?
The question many in their 20's (and 30's) are asking: How do I become an adult? http://tinyurl.com/yd3dogq What do you suggest?7. nywc (National Youth Worker's Convention) is coming to Cincinnati the end of this month. They want to know if there is anything weird to do there - someone has to have an idea. I'd love to hear them (and I'll pass them on).
We're looking for weird things to do in Cincy. Got ideas? Share your link!
What did you learn from Twitter over the last few weeks?
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: free, ministry, NYWC, resources, youth ministry, youth ministry tips
Friday, October 16, 2009
Photo Friday: Cup of Fries
Nothing quite like a homemade cup of french fries - much better than any fast-food place. (The picture also captures the pace of life, even fries you make at home need to be "to go" every once in a while)
-------------------------
These weekly pictures are provided as an available resource for use within your youth ministry. These pictures can be used for background slides, event promotion, or anywhere else you need a good photograph. What I ask is that you do not use them for anything in which you make a profit and attribute me as the photographer. I would also love to hear how you are using them (pictures of your final product would be great, too) within your youth ministry.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: Photo Friday, pics
Thursday, October 15, 2009
NYWC '09: The Preparation
As I get closer to attending the National Youth Workers Convention in Cincinnati, OH, I thought I would share a few tips for getting the most out of the convention. These are tips I have used and benefited from in the past and/or things I want to do this year. (These tips can also apply to other conventions and seminars, too - well all but #9)
9 Things You Have to do at NYWC
1. Filter out the noise
There will be a lot going on. Most of it will be good and most of it could be beneficial to you. BUT if you want to hear God's voice, you'll have to filter out all of the other noise. You might need to avoid going to the store, the hall of booths, a class or the main sessions. Do not allow the busyness (business side of ministry) to grab your attention.
2. Know what you are looking for
This goes for resources and for the overall convention. You will want to know what types of resources (books, curriculum, tech support...) your ministry needs and stick to those items. Do not venture off into buying stuff you do not need. Also, you should know what you need to take home spiritually. If you are feeling drained, you need to spend time getting refreshed and recharged. If you need some fresh ideas, you should talk to as many people as you can about ministry. If you need some rest, you should do whatever you can to get it.
3. Talk with a convention pastor or counselor
YS provides pastors and counselors free of charge. Did you catch that, you DO NOT have to pay to talk to someone about your ministry or yourself. These pastors/counselors want to help you gain some understanding and leave a healthier person - take advantage of this opportunity.
4. Listen with an open heart and mind
You will encounter more opinions than you thought possible. You will hear differing viewpoints and beliefs. But do not tune anyone out. Listen to what they have to say with an open mind and heart. Listen without preparing your arguments. Listen. And then think about what they said.
5. Do not be conformed by the schedule
You do not have to go to everything on the schedule! (reread that sentence) The schedule is provided so you have options, not to cause stress when you can't make it to everything. When you arrive and register, sit down and look at the entire schedule. Decide what you really want/need to attend. Then allow yourself the freedom to "miss" the rest of the stuff. Make your own schedule and allow the convention to be beneficial, not burdensome.
6. Get rest
You worked hard so that you could be gone for this Sunday. When you get back, you will work hard trying to make sure everything is ready for the next weekend. So during these 5 days, relax. Find - no take time to rest! Your bodies needs it. Your mind needs it. Your soul needs it. You will feel more relaxed and refreshed when you leave, if you take the time to get some rest while you are at the convention.
7. Do something out of the ordinary
How many times each year do you get a chance to experience new things? At this convention, you should take advantage of the opportunity. If you usually go to bed early, attend a late night session. If you usually sleep in, get up early and meet another youth worker for breakfast. Attend one of the prayer services. Go to the labyrinth. Sit down next to someone you have never met and start a conversation. Yell down the hallway. Skip down the street. Whatever you do, find someway to get out of your comfort zone and do something new.
*You need to participate in the Open Space Saturday. It is new for everyone (its the first year YS has done it, so LA is the only experience anyone has had with it), but I have heard only positive comments from people who were a part of it in LA. You would benefit from carving out some time to take part*
8. Find a new friend
At a convention for youth workers, you already have a point of common interest. Early in the convention make a new friend. Then make it a point to connect with this new friend multiple times during the convention. This way, you will go home with a new friend and someone whom you can talk to about youth ministry when you need an ear or an idea.
9. Meet Mike in person by finding him in the YS Store and striking up a conversation. (Free "high five" if you mention this blog post)
This one is rather self-explanatory. If you are coming to the NYWC in Cincinnati, I would love to meet you. Leave a comment and let me know you are going or just say "hi" at the convention. Either way, I would love to meet another youth worker with a passion for reaching students with the message of God's love.
What do you do to get the most out of a convention?
Posted by
lilkup
3
comments
Labels: ministry, NYWC, personal, youth coaches, youth ministry, youth ministry tips
Wednesday, October 14, 2009
Trivia Wednesday #143: Money Spent on Halloween Candy Annually
answer #142 - Chocolate candy bars top the list as the most popular candy for trick-or-treaters with Snickers #1. (What is the most popular candy given out on Halloween?)
question #143 - How much money is spent on Halloween candy each year?
------------
This weekly trivia is provided for use within your youth ministry. You can use this random trivia in many ways: use it to start a conversation with a student, add it to your introduction for your lesson or message, include it in your next newsletter or email, or just randomly insert it into your daily conversations. No matter how you decide to use it, I hope this trivia knowledge can be beneficial within your youth ministry.
If you have any suggestions on topics you would like to see used for the trivia questions, just leave a comment and let me know.
Posted by
lilkup
1 comments
Labels: trivia, Trivia Wednesday
Friday, October 09, 2009
Photo Friday: Gigantic Pizza
One of the biggest pizza pies I have ever seen.
--------------------
These weekly pictures are provided as an available resource for use within your youth ministry. These pictures can be used for background slides, event promotion, or anywhere else you need a good photograph. What I ask is that you do not use them for anything in which you make a profit and attribute me as the photographer. I would also love to hear how you are using them (pictures of your final product would be great, too) within your youth ministry.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: Photo Friday, pics
Thursday, October 08, 2009
Free ebook: Tear Down the Wall of the Youth Room
Nick Arnold, from ministryallies.com, has just released an ebook on connecting with students outside of the "church walls."
Here is what Nick has this to say about the ebook:
Looking for a resource filled with creative ideas to build relationships with students? This is a free resource from Ministry Allies full of relational ministry ideas, including hanging out with students, working on projects together, going to cheer on other students together, and a ton of other great ideas.
You can get the eb00k by clicking on the link. Did I mention it's FREE and full of great ideas.
(I had the privilege of being able to contribute a few ideas and comments to the ebook, along with a handful of other youth ministry minded people)
Posted by
lilkup
2
comments
Labels: free, high school, middle school, ministry, resources, small town youth ministry, students, youth coaches, youth ministry, youth ministry tips
Wednesday, October 07, 2009
Trivia Wednesday #142: Most Popular Halloween Candy
answer #141 - C. S. Lewis (Who has written more books, Leo Tolstoy or C. S. Lewis?)
question #142 - What is the most popular candy given out on Halloween?
----
This weekly trivia is provided for use within your youth ministry. You can use this random trivia in many ways: use it to start a conversation with a student, add it to your introduction for your lesson or message, include it in your next newsletter or email, or just randomly insert it into your daily conversations. No matter how you decide to use it, I hope this trivia knowledge can be beneficial within your youth ministry.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: books, trivia, Trivia Wednesday
October Trivia
October is mainly associated with Halloween. (It used to be the month of the World Series, too. But now that belongs to the beginning of November)
Anyway, this month's trivia questions will focus on Halloween.
Here is what you can look forward to & hopefully learn something from:
10/7 - Most popular Halloween candy
10/14 - Amount of money spent on Halloween candy
10/21 - First wrapped candy
10/28 - Amount of money spent on Halloween costumes
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: trivia
Tuesday, October 06, 2009
Book Review: Fresh Start by Doug Fields
(This Doug Fields book is not a youth ministry book, but it will definitely speak to youth workers and the students they work with. Plus, Doug writes like a youth worker would! As I read through the book, I kept picturing Doug standing in front of a room of high schoolers giving these chapters as messages. You can take a youth worker out of the youth ministry genre, but you can't take the youth ministry communicator out of the author.)
Have you ever wanted a second chance, but did not feel deserving of one? do you struggle to take life in a new direction because you are afraid of making the same mistakes? In Fresh Start, Doug Fields offers wisdom to help you start over. Fields uses his twenty-plus years of ministry experience to provide practical advise to help the reader make a fresh start.
Fresh Start covers a number of areas where people need a new beginning. Fields discusses pride, serving, the past, pain, conflict, rejection, anger and sharing your fresh-start story. Each chapter delves into the topic, without stopping at the surface level issue. Fields brings to light the underlying causes and obstacles that need to be addressed before a person can experience a fresh start. In the introduction it says "Let's see what happens as you keep moving forward by faith and doing the possible while trusting God with the impossible." A fresh start is not impossible, but it will take hard-work.
This book does not leave the reader with a desire to make a change, but no means to follow through. Every chapter provides a collection of practical and helpful advice. For example, in chapter five, Freedom from hurt, Fields offers steps to help the reader begin to forgive. In this case, you admit you're hurt, determine what he/she owes you, cancel the debt, and release the offender completely. Having this tangible advice offers the beginning of healing for the person who has been carrying the pain of past hurts.
You will benefit greatly from picking up a copy and reading through these pages. In fact, I would suggest you find the chapter that deals with the area of "stuckness" you want to be unstuck and read it first. Read and interact with the text. Allow God's Word and the advice in this book to help you move toward the Fresh Start you want.
My advice (rating) – buy more than one and give out copies (5 out of 5)
Posted by
lilkup
2
comments
Labels: Book Review, books, ministry
Friday, October 02, 2009
October Photos
During the month of October, the Photo Fridays will all be about food. I hope this doesn't make you too hungry.
Oct 2 - a nice look at the bottom of an iced tea container
Oct 9 - an amazingly large pizza pie
Oct 16 - a "to go" cup of french fries
Oct 23 - a miniature version of a cantaloupe
Oct 30 - frozen bananas & a mutated strawberry
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: Photo Friday, pics
Photo Friday: Iced Tea
The bottom of the iced tea container. That looks like some strong tea right there.
------------------
These weekly pictures are provided as an available resource for use within your youth ministry. These pictures can be used for background slides, event promotion, or anywhere else you need a good photograph. What I ask is that you do not use them for anything in which you make a profit and attribute me as the photographer. I would also love to hear how you are using them (pictures of your final product would be great, too) within your youth ministry.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: Photo Friday, pics
Thursday, October 01, 2009
NYWC '09: The Anticipation
In less than a month, I'll be in Cincinnati for the 2009 National Youth Workers Convention. Below is a list of things I'm looking forward to.
Things I'm looking forward to at NYWC 2009: Cincinnati
1. Experiencing the new format
This year Youth Specialties is using a new format for the convention. Go here to find out more about the changes. One of the biggest changes is happening on Saturday in Open Space. After hearing about the experience from LA (the first convention of this year was in LA last week), I am excited to be a part of it in person.
As I have volunteered at more conventions than I have attended, some of the changes will mean little to change my overall experience. Since I have not been able to attend any of the workshops or seminars, I will not miss this change. The benefit of attending the NYWC, for me, comes from the interaction with other youth workers. And that interaction is only going to be more intentional this year.
2. Seeing old friends
I love seeing old friends and connecting with them. Some of these friends are from college, some are youth workers I only know through the convention and others are people I have been able to work with. But the group I'm really looking forward to seeing is the YS staff (volunteers included) - I love working with these people. Unfortunately, this year will also be the first year that I won't be working with some old friends (you will all be missed).
There is something special about being able to spend time with people who understand.
In a place full of youth workers, you do not feel so alone.
In a place full of people who serve teenagers, you do not feel so odd.
In a place where there is always someone to talk to, you feel at home.
3. Meeting new friends
I already know of a few people I'm going to finally get to meet in person (which makes me pretty excited). Over the last few years I have been able to connect with several youth workers thanks to the internet. We have shared ideas, laughed together, prayed for each other, encouraged each other and become friends. But, since we do not live near each other, we have never met in person. Thanks to conventions like this, we get to be in the same place at the same time.
As much as I am looking forward to meeting these "online friends," I'm just as excited to meet brand new friends. I do not know who I will get to interact with and get to know, but I know we'll share a common bond. Maybe it'll be you.
4. Serving youth workers
This would be #1 if I ordered by importance. Serving youth workers is the reason I volunteer every year I can. I love students and I love youth workers. I have been through some difficult seasons in ministry and I know there are many others who are going through something similar. Volunteering at the convention allows me an opportunity to serve a lot of youth workers and watch God refresh and recharge those who are serving others.
5. Getting the new Skit Guys DVD
I am pretty excited about getting the new Skit Guys DVD. I am thankful to Eddie (one of the Skit Guys) for his kindness, which is the only reason I get to get the new DVD. I mentioned on Twitter that I wish I could get the DVD for registering, using a promo code from YS and the NNYM. Since I am volunteering at the convention, I do not need to register to attend. Thus, no promotional code for me. Eddie responded to my tweet by saying they (the Skit Guys) would make sure I got one. I'm pretty excited about getting it and using it with the jr. high students I am currently working with.
6. Finding new resources
Speaking of new resources... youth workers are always looking for a resource that will help us serve students more effectively. At the convention, you will find a variety of companies and products in the exhibit hall, so many that you will probably feel overwhelmed. But if you know what you are looking for and use common sense, you can find a great new resource(s). I try to only get what I know I can use soon after I return home. Do not come home with a suitcase full of curriculum or books to read - you will not use them all. Purchase what you will use and write down information about the other resources, so you can get them later.
If you are planning on going to NYWC in Cincinnati, I would love to meet you. I'll be at the YS Store most of the week, just stop by and say "hi" or maybe we can do lunch.
Posted by
lilkup
3
comments
Labels: NYWC, youth ministry
Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Trivia Wednesday #141: Who wrote more: C.S. Lewis or Leo Tolstoy?
answer #140 - And Then There Were None (Which book has sold more copies, And Then There Were None by Agatha Christie or The Catcher in the Rye by J. D. Salinger?)
question #141 - Who has written more books, Leo Tolstoy or C. S. Lewis?
----
This weekly trivia is provided for use within your youth ministry. You can use this random trivia in many ways: use it to start a conversation with a student, add it to your introduction for your lesson or message, include it in your next newsletter or email, or just randomly insert it into your daily conversations. No matter how you decide to use it, I hope this trivia knowledge can be beneficial within your youth ministry.
If you have any suggestions on topics you would like to see used for the trivia questions, just leave a comment and let me know.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: books, trivia, Trivia Wednesday
Monday, September 28, 2009
Prayer helps - to help you focus
Prayer is pretty important to a Christian. It is the avenue through which a Christian can talk directly with God (the Creator and Sustainer of the Universe) and share true emotions with the one person who had to power to really change things.
Because prayer is so important, it can be overwhelming. Students struggle to pray. Adults struggle to pray. Youth workers struggle to teach teenagers ways to pray or encourage them to start, even just for a few minutes.
Below you will find 3 prayer helps. The first 2 are methods that can be used to help a student (or anyone for that matter) focus their prayer time. The 3rd help is about focusing your prayers, but learning to focus more on other people and less on yourself when you pray.
P.I.N.C.a.P.
Praise - praise God for Who He is
Intercession - praying for other people
Needs - pray specifically for needs you know about
Confession - confessing your sins
and
Protection - asking God for protection for those who need it
A.C.T.S.
Adoration - praising God for Who He is
Confession - confessing your sins
Thanksgiving - telling God "thank you" for His blessings
Supplication - asking for "stuff" on behalf of yourself and others
me & we vs. You & them
How do you pray? Do you spend your prayer time focused on yourself and those close to you? Or is your prayer time focused more on God and others?
What ideas/helps have you used in the past? What would you suggest and add to this list?
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: God, ministry, prayer, students, teaching, youth ministry, youth ministry tips
Saturday, September 26, 2009
Learned from Twitter: week ending Sept. 26, 2009
A few highlights from the last few weeks:
1. chadswanzy (Chad Swanzy) linked to a book on mentoring. If you are involved with teenagers, go check it out.
"The Be With Factor" Mentoring Students In Everyday Life is on Google Books http://tr.im/ywIk2. Drun (David Runnels) offered some great advice, that we all could stand to hear.
We need people who will encourage us, strenghten us so we can learn from our limitations.3. BtotheEtotheN (Ben Boles) shared a thought on not letting all of the "noise" around you become overwhelming.
I realized last night, it's not about the amount of noise in your life but how well you control the volume4. gavoweb (Gavin Richardson) pointed us to an article on working with parents.
Youth Ministry Today - Parents Are Your Friends http://ff.im/-8a68oand also this video from AT&T about "future" technology, from 1993.
RT @Alyssa_Milano See the #technology AT&T envisioned 4 our future in commercials done back in 1993 http://bit.ly/2jCzBt // i remember these5. DougFields (Doug Fields) has officially stepped down as a pastor at Saddleback. This will mean he'll be spending more of his time training and encouraging youth workers - that's a good thing.
My resignation from Saddleback is public & all good. If you're interested see http://tinyurl.com/9sqpgo6. pattigibbons (Patti Gibbons) reminded me of one of the reasons I love going to the National Youth Workers Convention - getting to meet online friends in person. It's going to be a great week.
@lilkup you mean I'm finally going to get to meet you?! :)
What did you learn from Twitter this week?
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: free, ministry, NYWC, technology, Twitter, youth coaches, youth ministry
Friday, September 25, 2009
Photo Friday: Pink Flamingos
If you can't find a way to use this photo with your "pink flamingo fundraiser" - you are not a "real" youth worker. :)
----
These weekly pictures are provided as an available resource for use within your youth ministry. These pictures can be used for background slides, event promotion, or anywhere else you need a good photograph. What I ask is that you do not use them for anything in which you make a profit and attribute me as the photographer. I would also love to hear how you are using them (pictures of your final product would be great, too) within your youth ministry.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: animals, Photo Friday, pics
Thursday, September 24, 2009
2 Small Group Series Released - Elijah & Trusting God
I'm pretty excited about these 2 small groups. They are the first "stand-alone" small groups/lesson/curriculum material that I've written that's been published in any form other than being printed from my computer. Plus, I love the fact that they have great looking covers (its a shame they are only downloadable).
If you have used these lessons, I would love to hear what you thought.
I wrote a 4 week series on Elijah and its now available for download from Simply Youth Ministry. Follow this link: Elijah Small Group Series to get more information and to download.
Lessons include:
- Week 1 - He Was Confident in God (1 Kings 18:16-39)
- Week 2 - He Battled Fear (1 Kings 19:1-8)
- Week 3 - He Battled Loneliness (1 Kings 19:9-14)
- Week 4 - He Was a Lifelong Servant (2 Kings 2:1-11)

I also wrote a 3 week series on Trusting God and its also now available for download from Simply Youth Ministry. Follow this link: Trusting God Small Group Series to get more information and to download.
Lessons include:
- Week 1: With Your Past (1 John 4:10)
- Week 2: In the Present (Ephesians 4:22-24)
- Week 3: With Your Future (2 Corinthians 5:6-10)
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: God, high school, lessons, middle school, ministry, published, resources, students, teaching, youth ministry
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
Trivia Wednesday #140: Best-Selling Books
answer #139 - 'Lost Horizon' by James Hilton was the first modern paperback published in America, by Pocket Books in 1939. (What was the first paperback ever published?)
question #140 - Which book has sold more copies, And Then There Were None by Agatha Christie or The Catcher in the Rye by J. D. Salinger?
----
This weekly trivia is provided for use within your youth ministry. You can use this random trivia in many ways: use it to start a conversation with a student, add it to your introduction for your lesson or message, include it in your next newsletter or email, or just randomly insert it into your daily conversations. No matter how you decide to use it, I hope this trivia knowledge can be beneficial within your youth ministry.
If you have any suggestions on topics you would like to see used for the trivia questions, just leave a comment and let me know.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: books, trivia, Trivia Wednesday
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Book Review: 99 Thoughts for Youth Workers by Josh Griffin
There are two things you need to be aware of before you read 99 Thoughts on Youth Ministry. First, the title is a lie, because this little book is filled with 113 nuggets of youth ministry knowledge, not 99. Second, as you read through the pages you might notice that Griffin seems to be writing to a very specific audience, even more specific than say the average youth worker. In fact, based on this section from the description I would say he's writing with his ministry team and atmosphere in mind: "Over the past couple of years Josh has been journaling his youth ministry learnings in his Moleskine and on his blog. The good, the bad and the ugly - this is a collection of those thoughts."
I think the fact that Griffin is currently "in the trenches," and writing about what he knows, gives this book a little extra boost of character and authenticity. 99 Thoughts is more than a random collection of ramblings, it is a categorized peek into the youth ministry thoughts of a youth worker who passionately strives to serve students and help other youth workers be more effective. You will find thoughts in four areas: vision & leadership, programs & people, small groups & events, and everyday ministry. Within these sections, each thought is short and to the point, making the book as a whole short and to the point.
99 Thoughts is a great youth worker stocking stuffer (or if you feel uncomfortable stuffing a youth worker's stocking, you can just slide it under the door). Anyone currently working in youth ministry can benefit from reading this book. The rookie youth worker can learn from Griffin's experience, and possibly avoid a mistake or two of her own. And since you can read this book while eating lunch it is not intimidating to a youth worker who already feels overwhelmed with responsibilities. Veteran youth workers can also glean from these pages, as each thought will serve as a reminder or encouragement.
I highly recommend getting a copy of this book for every member of your youth ministry team. You can either encourage them to read the whole thing on their own or use it as part of your team meetings (discussing one section at a time). Regardless of how you use it, I believe your ministry will benefit from the 113 thoughts found within these pages.
My advice (rating) – buy more than one and give out copies (5 out of 5)
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: Book Review, books, leadership, ministry, resources, youth coaches, youth ministry, Youth Ministry Thoughts
Monday, September 21, 2009
2 recent articles: Six Days of Work & Who's Keeping You Accountable
Here are two articles I've recently written and had published on youthministry.com. If you haven't read them yet, take a few moments and do so. Then I'd love to hear your feedback/thoughts, just leave a comment.
Sabbath rest is a two-part deal: taking a break from your work and working efficiently the other days.
By asking for help, you're acknowledging to yourself that you want to make a change in your life.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: God, marriage, ministry, ministry frustrations, published, youth ministry
Friday, September 18, 2009
Photo Friday: Brown Bear
As a parent, the first thing I think of when seeing this brown bear is... "Brown bear, brown bear what do you see?"
-----
These weekly pictures are provided as an available resource for use within your youth ministry. These pictures can be used for background slides, event promotion, or anywhere else you need a good photograph. What I ask is that you do not use them for anything in which you make a profit and attribute me as the photographer. I would also love to hear how you are using them (pictures of your final product would be great, too) within your youth ministry.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: animals, Photo Friday, pics
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
Trivia Wednesday #139: First Published Paperback
answer #138 - "The Adventures of Obadiah Oldbuck" by Rudolphe Topffer (What was the first comic book published?)
(In 1837, "The Adventures of Obadiah Oldbuck" was published by Rudolphe Töpffer and it is considered the earliest known comic book. In 1842, "The Adventures of Obadiah Oldbuck" became the first comic book published in the United States. "Obadiah Oldbuck" was a forty page book. Each page had several picture panels with accompanying text underneath.)
question #139 - What was the first paperback ever published?
----
This weekly trivia is provided for use within your youth ministry. You can use this random trivia in many ways: use it to start a conversation with a student, add it to your introduction for your lesson or message, include it in your next newsletter or email, or just randomly insert it into your daily conversations. No matter how you decide to use it, I hope this trivia knowledge can be beneficial within your youth ministry.
If you have any suggestions on topics you would like to see used for the trivia questions, just leave a comment and let me know.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: trivia, Trivia Wednesday
Saturday, September 12, 2009
Learned from Twitter: week ending September 12, 2009
Here are a few of the things I learned from my twitter friends this week:
1. MinistryAllies (Ministry Allies) offered an invitation to anyone willing to be part of an ebook by adding input and suggestions to the written content. If you would like to take part, let him know. (if you don't know how to contact him, I can get you connected)Looking for ppl to add input to an eBook on hanging out w/ teens outside youth group, like what marko did with ym3.0. anyone want to help?
2. gavoweb (Gavin Richardson) shared a story from the AP on Dave Ramsey. I have to say some of the info in the article makes it harder to believe he is truly "saving as much as he can and giving as much as he can away" as 2 of the 3 things mentioned. (the third being "make as much as you can" and that seems to be covered). What do you think? Can it be a ministry when its a for profit business? Maybe part of me would like to see what % of profit gets sent to "missions or other ministries."The Associated Press: Christian money guru gets rich mixing faith, funds http://ff.im/-7S5LM
3. nywc (National Youth Workers Convention) was nice enough to inform anyone going to the Cincinnati convention about some lower rates at one of the hotels. BTW, I'll be at the Cincy convention and would love to connect with any of you who might also be there. Leave me a comment or send me an email and we'll get together.Coming to Cincy? Check out the new rock bottom rate at the Westin. http://bit.ly/bBcwa
4. zondervan (Zondervan) linked to a free download of "The Naked Gospel." Go check it out and read it. What can you lose, its free. :)
The Naked Gospel ranked as Zondervan's top selling book on Amazon. Download your FREE copy at http://www.TheNakedGospel.com w code "farley"
What did you learn from Twitter this week?
Posted by
lilkup
1 comments
Friday, September 11, 2009
Photo Friday: Giraffe
Nothing quite like a giraffe, up close and personal.
----
These weekly pictures are provided as an available resource for use within your youth ministry. These pictures can be used for background slides, event promotion, or anywhere else you need a good photograph. What I ask is that you do not use them for anything in which you make a profit and attribute me as the photographer. I would also love to hear how you are using them (pictures of your final product would be great, too) within your youth ministry.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: animals, Photo Friday, pics
Wednesday, September 09, 2009
Trivia Wednesday #138: First Published Comic Book
answer #137 - L. Ron Hubbard (Who is the most translated author of all time?)
(In 2006, Guinness World Records declared L. Ron Hubbard the world's most published and most translated author, having published 1,084 fiction and non-fiction works that have been translated into 71 languages.)
question #138 - What was the first comic book published?
----
This weekly trivia is provided for use within your youth ministry. You can use this random trivia in many ways: use it to start a conversation with a student, add it to your introduction for your lesson or message, include it in your next newsletter or email, or just randomly insert it into your daily conversations. No matter how you decide to use it, I hope this trivia knowledge can be beneficial within your youth ministry.
If you have any suggestions on topics you would like to see used for the trivia questions, just leave a comment and let me know.
Posted by
lilkup
2
comments
Labels: trivia, Trivia Wednesday
Tuesday, September 08, 2009
Book Review: Fearless by Max Lucado
(This review of Fearless is written by my wife. She captures the essence of the book and applies it to our life at the moment. First, read her review and then think about whether or not you need to read Lucado's book. Sidenote: the book comes with study questions in the back, making it an easy choice for a small group study)
As a young child fears are easily identified. They lurk under beds, in dark closets, within scary movies. As I have become an adult those fears of my childhood have been mostly dismissed and replaced with new, less defined fears. These fears seem to be found in the uncontrolled, unpredictable, ever-changing details of what lies ahead. In Max Lucado's book Fearless I have begun to grasp the need to both identify and put to rest the fears in my life concerning that which I cannot control. I have gained courage not only from Lucado's perspective and insight on how to overcome fears but even more so from the examples of Scripture that he highlights. Through using various "have no fear" statements made by Jesus, Lucado touches on the main areas that we find fear in: the future, our economic status, our children's safety, and not mattering to others to name a few.
When I thought through the fears discussed in the book, I realized two things: there are things I could/should fear that I have never even considered. And secondly, I have no need to fear anything but God. These two rather opposite realizations have made a difference in my thought life, especially in light of the current situation in which my husband and I find ourselves. He is currently looking for a full time ministry position, and has been for around 15 months. Reasons for fears to take over my mind and soul? They are abundant. And although they are abundant, I now see more reasons that they are unnecessary. Every reason to allow fears to grow can be answered confidently with the call of Christ, "Do not be afraid." I believe we all have much to gain from listening to the voice of Jesus over our fears.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: Book Review, books
Monday, September 07, 2009
Youth Ministry Mentorships (10 weeks & FREE)
The next round of youth ministry mentorships is about to start. This 10 week program allows youth ministry newbies (2 years or less) to learn from youth ministry veterans. The program is open to full-time, part-time and volunteer. (Sorry, no females this time, due to there not being a female mentor this time around).
The application process is only open through Thursday (9/10), so if you want to apply - you'll want to do so soon!
There is a great bunch of youth ministers who have a lot of wisdom/insight to learn from - and I'm on the team, too. :)
Check out Tim's post on the mentorship program that covers all the information you'll need to know, plus more...
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: free, ministry, youth ministry
Saturday, September 05, 2009
Learned from Twitter: week ending September 5, 2009
I took last week off from posting these updates, but this week's edition is jam packed with great information and resources. Enjoy :)
1. snavenel (Len Evans) shared a link that youth ministers need to read - the newest Youth Leader Only from Interlinc.Savy Youth Ministry: Work Smarter Not Harder http://bit.ly/11PX8N by @interlinc
2. Psych_USA (Psych) shared a great picture from an upcoming episode. Looks hilarious.RT @psychwrites: http://twitpic.com/flb0c -From L to R: Jaleel White, Kenan Thompson, Dule Hill, Demord Dann. THIS EPISODE IS AMAZING.
3. gavoweb (Gavin Richardson) shared a link to an article on how to turn your blog ramblings into a published book. And one about putting your youth newsletter on Twitter.
Blog to Book-12 Keys to Posting for Publishing http://ff.im/-7jBhe
How to make a Twitter Youth Group Newsletter http://ff.im/-7suNF4. saraeden (Sara Eden Williams) reminds us that some chances are worth taking in youth ministry. (Especially if you really want to go to the amusement park) :)
70% chance of rain but we're still going to the amusement park. If I were I mom I'd probably say no. But I'm a youthworker and we're crazy.5. Writepop (Writepop) thinks we all should know these great opening lines from great novels. I must not pay attention to the first line, because I did not know many of them.
Great list! 100 of the best first lines from novels http://u.nu/78m43 #writing #booksAnd he wants to inform us that laptops have been "around" for a long time, since 1937?
Is this the first appearance of a laptop in fiction, all the way back in 1937? - http://u.nu/3am43 #scifi #comics6. SYMConference (Simply Youth Ministry Conference) is getting relationally ready for the upcoming conference in Chicago. If you haven't heard of this conference yet, you need to check it out.
lots of reconnection this week with a whole bunch of #symc volunteers who've become like family to us...I seriously love these people!7. radarradio (Under the Radar) let us know about Amazon's free download. It only lasts until tomorrow, so hurry!
Here's link to the FREE DOWNLOAD (1 song your choice) on Amazon: http://tinyurl.com/ktvssj
What did you learn from Twitter this week?
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: free, fun, ministry, music, resources, technology, Twitter, youth ministry
Friday, September 04, 2009
September Photos: Zoo Animals
This month will feature pictures of "zoo animals." Most everyone loves going to the zoo and these are four of your "staple" animals that almost any zoo will have.
Zoo Animals feature this month:
- A Colorful Bird
- A Giraffe
- A Brown Bear
- Pink Flamingos
----
These weekly pictures are provided as an available resource for use within your youth ministry. These pictures can be used for background slides, event promotion, or anywhere else you need a good photograph. What I ask is that you do not use them for anything in which you make a profit and attribute me as the photographer. I would also love to hear how you are using them (pictures of your final product would be great, too) within your youth ministry.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: animals, Photo Friday, pics
Photo Friday: Colorful Bird
----
These weekly pictures are provided as an available resource for use within your youth ministry. These pictures can be used for background slides, event promotion, or anywhere else you need a good photograph. What I ask is that you do not use them for anything in which you make a profit and attribute me as the photographer. I would also love to hear how you are using them (pictures of your final product would be great, too) within your youth ministry.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: animals, Photo Friday, pics
Thursday, September 03, 2009
September Trivia Questions
This month's trivia questions are all about literature. And I'm not going to ask about what book is the most published - its still the Bible (and I have a hard time believing it will ever be anything else).
The five questions are about:
- Most translated author of all time. (already posted)
- The first comic book ever published.
- The first paperback ever published.
- Which, of two books, has sold more copies?
- Which author, of two, has written more books?
Come back each Wednesday this month and test you knowledge of literature...
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: books, trivia, Trivia Wednesday
Wednesday, September 02, 2009
Trivia Wednesday #137: Most Translated Author
answer #136 - The formation of a word, as cuckoo or boom, by imitation of a sound made by or associated with its referent. (What is an onomatopoeia?)
question #137 - Who is the most translated author of all time?
----
This weekly trivia is provided for use within your youth ministry. You can use this random trivia in many ways: use it to start a conversation with a student, add it to your introduction for your lesson or message, include it in your next newsletter or email, or just randomly insert it into your daily conversations. No matter how you decide to use it, I hope this trivia knowledge can be beneficial within your youth ministry.
If you have any suggestions on topics you would like to see used for the trivia questions, just leave a comment and let me know.
Posted by
lilkup
0
comments
Labels: books, trivia, Trivia Wednesday